I’m so glad Debbie wrote about this! I have a similar situation where I met a guy a year and a half ago. We went out to dinner (which he didn’t pay for mine) and we ended up spending the whole weekend together and fooling around (not sex).
He ended up having a girlfriend for about a year but would still call me every three months or so. He broke up with the girlfriend in January and has been calling me every week since then. I’m actually going out to visit him in a couple weeks (I’m visiting other people and have a meeting in the area, also) but I have no idea what his intentions are.
I want to know what Debbie plans on doing when she does end up seeing the guy again.
I think that the guy I’m talking about does expect some action but I think he expects it from not just me. I don’t plan on doing anything because I want to be sure he isn’t using me or disrespectful. I’d rather have just a good friendship than be used. I don’t know if that’s right, though. I need to read the book!
Posted on 22 May 2020, 4:13 PM